CTI??? Daily tips??? Read the introduction to the tip #1 if you would like to have some explanations.
At this moment of my life, it becomes absolutely clear to me that overriding the inner guidance will lead to pain, both for me and for others.
However, I can’t convince others, people in my family and friends who do not know or do not realize yet how our human experience is 100% created via Thought, that we all have a permanent connection to the source of wisdom in the moment which is the most reliable source of answer and guidance, moment-by-moment.
And as Michael Neill says in CTI audio “Why Being Terrible at Predicting the Future is Wonderful News!” (Day 55), you can’t know in advance the answers you will have for the moment in an hour, a week, or a year from now, the wisdom in the moment is available ONLY in the moment.
Unfortunately, no matter how I try to convince the people close to me that the situation is OK and I know what I’m doing (in each moment), most of them can’t accept with peace and calmness the facts that I have only 4 weeks of my EU residence permit’s validity left and I still don’t have a ready solution to extend / exchange it. Each of them feels obliged to give me an advice, urge me to run after anything that starts to seem like a possibility and argue with my statements which say that there is no evident solution yet.
So, the tip I have for myself today: stop trying to quiet down the others and simply keep looking within for my answers.
And you know, I have realized that it is exactly in the periods when I know for sure that I will be OK no matter what, I will have access to mental health and wellbeing, love, joy and happiness even if no solution appears and I will have to live the EU in 4 weeks… It is exactly in this periods when I am most resourceful to take action, to reach out to people and companies, to keep the momentum going in the direction of job search (the most likely way to keep me in the EU) and the direction of growing and sustaining my coaching practice (my only stream of income in the last four months).
I invite you, my dear readers, to do an experiment for yourself. You can devote to it as much time as you like: an hour, a day, a week, a month, a year, or whole your life. When there is a need for a decision to be made, become quiet, look within and check whether the decision has already been made.
I promise to you, with time and experience, you will come to see that there are two most probable outcomes each time you stop to look within: either the decision has been made, and you can spare yourself of spending time and energy on looking for more information to justify that decision. Or the decision is not ready yet, and you can relax and trust that it will be there when you need it. In the meanwhile, if there is something for you to do, you will be guided to do it: make your research, request some extra information, ask somebody to do something or make an offer to someone.
And as you experiment with following that guidance, you will see that it leads you to the places you never imagined, to surprises and adventures, and best of all, it helps you to be in peace, love, acceptance and confidence within yourself.
Until next time,
Enjoy your life! ;)
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